I Was Used by A Campus Girl For Revenge Sex

I always feel like punching people when they keep saying that it’s only dudes who use and dump girls. I also used to think the same thing. Until one day, it’s always that one day when you question all your past assumptions.

I met Beutiture (fake name always) at the Fresher's Night in Monster University. She was own corner, sipping on her own drink. I couldn’t help but wonder why a hot girl would be all by herself on this cold Friday. So, playing Mr. Knight, I go over to save her. I trust myself on my game, there’s no question on that. But Bee (short of her fake name) was playing hard to get. I tried all kinds of lines, trying to make her laugh. I actually gave up, went, got my drink and sat in shame of rejection.

Am sitting by the counter, our eyes lock once again, she gives me those bedroom eyes, then uses her finger to call me forward. I go over, and she puts me through a QnA. 

Anytime a girl takes time to question you that signifies interest. Before I knew it all, she was rubbing my D and I could tell the magic was on that night.

Problem was logistics. I doubted if she could accept to get on a bodaboda with me back to Stage residences. Even in Stage, I would have to call my roomie and ask him to climb the tree. But this was a different species of girls. She was the Hostel K girl. She told me her roomie had gone home for the weekend; we could go to her hostel. Voila, the fun was on. Reached the gate, she bribes gate man with a hug and cigarette so me could enter that time of the night and sleep over.

To cut this long story. She gave me the best s$x. She was a super tigress. Even mere thought of the s$x she gave me, makes me to drool over the keyboard, and get hard. Next day, I took the manly walk of shame back to Stage. Two days later, I tried to call her number. Tasha wasn’t picking. I mean, why on earth could she use me for a one night stand. So I did a search on her Instagram statuses. I find out she’d caught her bf cheating and so in revenge, she went out and had s$x with me. I felt used.

Since then, I learned that there are two types of girls that stay at Hostel K. The first type is those that will have sex with you because they like you. The other type is one that will have sex with you in order to revenge on their boyfriends. Since then, whenever am at The night, I remember to ask my brain which category the girl falls in. I still have to heal from the wounds of being used by a Hostel K girl. Till next time, tread carefully on Hostel K girls, they love spite sex.

How I survived death from my crush and her jealous ex-boyfriend

I don’t know why she was walking l mean she was the type whose feet should not in any way touch the ground for l had sworn that l would carry her on my back or lay on the ground for her to walk over even before she approached me as if God’s grace was by my side our eyes met and she walked straight towards the empty yellow seat next to me at the Lugogo Arena she smiled and said hello for the first time in years l was lost for words l sheepishly looked at her then back to the action on the court then my drink It was the season opener of the national basketball league a few weeks ago as usual the arena was swarmed with basketball fans no voice and those unknown the girls almost outnumbered the boys.

Betty was one of them l got to know her name deep into the third quarter, the first half was spent listening to her analyze everything that was going wrong with the KIU team and why she thought Juruni’s oilers would with 4th consecutive title l couldn’t help but marvel at how local basketball stat were rolling off her tongueAt one point she said she would remove her top if one of the KIU player hoo!! l forgot his name would make anyone of the two free throws hii  he missed and l was left devastated For that chap had already won my worst player of the year award l could tell she was making and effort to pretend she was not crushing on me but l could see the sign that was she fidgeted with her hair or laughed rather softy and she touched my arms while making a point she occasionally took my hand into hers and rubbed my backwhile smiling ohhh we took several selfies and she called me lover boy.

Betty also offered me a refill which was as strange and fun as you will ever get but l wasn’t the one to refuse a free drink when she returned with two disposable tumblers, she looked crashed her hands could barely hold the drinks and the smile was gone ” l just met my ex-boyfriend outside l think he has been watching us we need to leave she stammered she was talking about her ex not her father or current boyfriend but her ex she expected me to get up and leave a game of basketball because of her freaking ex.

You have an ex? I asked grabbing tumble before her shaky finger dropped they are like eight but am not seeing anyone now, my immediate ex is the jealous kind just now he was wondering why l was rubbing your back in public he sounded so bitter l think he is coming for your neck after the game.

I still needed my neck and my body parts intact but then again l was not going to show Betty that l was not man enough so l asked her to take her seat and continue rubbing my back as l run my hand over her thighs the game was not yet done and l still needed to fees off her granary of stats she whispered something but all l caught was you don’t understand, l took a sip of my drink and only woke up in some strange ware house without clothes my head felt heavy my eyes could not even view well.

CAMPUS VIBE 254 E-MAGAZINE

VOICE ISSUE

Welcome to the 2nd release, the VOICE ISSUE of Campus Vibe254
E-Magazine!

We hope that you and your friends made it safely through recent “NO
REFORMS, NO ELECTION” demos, violence, riots and looting, these are
the unwanted visits when we are in mid-year and broke. Our prayers go
out to all those who have had to deal with damage or loss of their
properties and businesses. Our thoughts and prayers are also with the
people in the devastated bomb-hit Mogadishu, Somali. It will take months
or years for many of them to rebuild their lives, thank Allah-the great,
they are still alive. More than 300 are reported t o have lost their life in
this untimely, inhumane and barbaric act. We will certainly be looking
forward to the end of the terrorism actions soon, Bravo! To our brave
soldiers serving under the AMISOM-Somali, of course not forgetting
those soldiers fighting in Nigeria ( Boko haram) and Syria’s ISIS.

You know that with the repeat elections in Kenya around the corner on
26th October, 2017, the political temperatures are high with charged
crowd attending political campaigns. It is better to practice safety
measures not to find yourself in the wrong places where your life will be
in danger. Campus Vibe254 wishes you safe short holiday as you head for
the repeat presidential elections.

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Check it out for even more uplifting, entertaining and educational
articles.

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What Do Students Want From the Next Government?

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What have you heard about the future of Higher Education in this General Election campaign? Political point-scoring and endless speculation around which party might prop up another for power makes it a challenge to hear much else above the noise.

With Kenya set to go to the polls in what is being billed as one of the most unpredictable general elections in recent history there are pivotal questions for our next government to answer - questions that stretch beyond short-term policy solutions but underpin the long-term direction for the future of university students. While the debate about tuition fees and funding is massively important, there are certainly many other points that need to be addressed.

The first of those is crucial when it comes to enhancing the learning environment in our lecture halls - that is the question of student diversity. In an age where economic growth is directly linked to globalisation and how businesses operate in the global stage, it is absolutely crucial to ensure that we the students are part of a multi-cultural environment from the moment when we start thinking about our careers. It’s been proved that multi-cultural teams have the ability to outperform mono-cultural teams and, indeed, the economic success of Nairobi is based on its position as a global city - and that is a fact that no government should ignore.

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The second question is whether there is a genuine commitment to expand access to 24/7, 365 days-a-year learning. In Kenya the two-semester system used by the vast majority of universities is ingrained in the colonial psyche. Online learning has changed that and will continue to corrode the enduring concept that dictates when you should study. 24/7 online learning will enable thousands more students - for whom academic terms and timetables simply do not work - to access higher education. There has been some progress on this front over the past few years and a new government should support and encourage this shift even further. Lifelong learning is a reality and the education system must be open to ambitious students who want to develop their skills further but are unable to take a sabbatical from work for full-time study.

Thirdly, there is the question of whether the next government will support integration between working and learning rather than separate the two. While there has been a greater focus on apprenticeships and vocational learning in the past few years, it is important that we move away from the idea that you can either go to university or get a job. There is no reason why anyone shouldn’t be able to do both! Students don’t just want a degree - they want a career at the end of their course. We have already seen some positive moves in this direction, such as the increase in courses that merge work and study. But more must be done to ensure our young people are fully equipped for professional environments. Again this is a question of making education more accessible to those who the traditional format isn’t suitable for, and ensuring that business schools, colleges, universities and employers work together in order to equip students with the right skills.

Fourth, government needs to decide if they will commit to a greater acknowledgment amongst institutions that there is more to admissions than A-Level results. Despite rhetoric of the importance of extra-curricular interests and activity, so much still depends on A-Level grades. As such some really talented people, including many who have gone on to have extremely successful professional careers, are locked out of higher education or find themselves unable to study at their preferred institutions. We must have an inclusive approach to higher education.

Finally, the incoming government will need to recognize, celebrate and encourage a diversity of institutions. The more options students have, the more likely they are to make the right decision for their careers. With a fast-paced job market, institutions need to be open to innovation in order to respond quickly employers’ needs. Increasing collaboration between the private and public sectors is an important step in the right direction, and students can only benefit from a wider offer of programmes, pathways and specialisms. International growth for our Kenyan institutions is really important, and we should be welcoming to global institutions that can offer students with a more international approach to higher education. If done in a sustainable way, this convergence can help shaping a new generation of responsible global citizens.

These are important building blocks that future governments should look to improve. Students’ interests, rather than ideological rhetoric, should be in everyone’s priority list once again. The future and the economic success of any country are directly linked to the success of its students.

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7 Things We All Loved About High-school Life

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Apart from the caning and waking up at dawn to go to class or prayers, there were some fun moments we all miss about high school.

Here are some:

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1. Inter-school games

They were fun. Period!

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2. Visiting days

This was an opportunity to eat all the good food not provided in boarding school.

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3. When you were permitted to stay out of class after you lied about being sick.

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4. School trips and drama festivals

Meeting your high school crush and making new friends was epic, not forgetting making noise in the school bus.

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5. When you had double maths lesson

(for those who hated it) and the teacher said he/she ain’t coming.

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6. Doing the final exam paper of the subject that you hated a lot.

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7. When the meal was something other than Githeri or Ugali with Beans

Remember waiting till Sunday to enjoy bread for breakfast or have rice and meat?

10 Commandments of a Campus Breakup

Breakups at their best are unpleasant and at their worst, catastrophic. It’s just one of the risks you take in the game of dating. The traditional “I’m just not that into you” breakups, the ghosting, and the not-so-happy endings are a liability in the fine print at the bottom of the contract you sign when you agree to a relationship with someone. And even after you return his sweatshirts and have to start pretending you don’t see him at the bar, there is still a code of conduct you have to follow. In a civil breakup, there are just rules that should be followed.

I get it. You’re newly single and you can finally do what you want and you know how much you’re gonna show him by making out with him, his pledge brother and the creepy bartender – but you don’t want to be that ex. You’re right, you don’t owe him anything. I mean, you already gave him everything. You were half a virgin when you met him! But you owe it to yourself not to look like the nutty ex everyone feels sorry for and simultaneously wishes would leave.

Everyone knows that there is a winner and a loser in a breakup, and whoever follows these ten commandments wins, while the sinful loser is left sad tweeting on a Friday night.

10. Thou Shall Not Harass His New “Friend”
Don’t get caught a love triangle that you’ll never get out of. Him, you, and the girl he’s fucking doesn’t exactly sound like a cozy night to me. No one likes the ex-girlfriend who corners the innocent girl who’s just trying to get a free drink and maybe some dick.

9. Thou Shall Avoid Staking Out His Fraternity
He knows what you’re doing, the brother you’re shamelessly flirting with knows what you’re doing and even the weird kid who shouldn’t have gotten a bid knows what you’re doing. No matter how much you linger at his house, he knows that you already know there’s not a fish tank upstairs, so you’re probably not going to get very far with him. Besides, absence makes the heart grow fonder. Or at least makes him think you’re kind of sane.

8. Thou Shall Not Force Mutual Friends To Pick Sides
Don’t be dramatic. It’s not war, it’s just a boy who stopped liking you. There are no sides to take. Wave the white flag so everyone can get back to pregaming together.

7. Thou Shall Try Not To Hook Up With His Friends
I know, the temptation is just sitting there in that backward hat, Xanax slack smile and best friend title. You used to playfully flirt with him and there’s definitely still sexual tension there despite you promising your ex otherwise, but sleeping with the friend is cruel and unusual punishment that should be reserved for the worst kind of ex-boyfriends. Also, it’ll just make you miss him more.

6. Thou Shall Avoid Drunk Texting
It’s going to happen. It’ll be mid-stumble back home when you’re feeling particularly sorry for yourself or maybe after you hear your “song.” It will happen one fateful night at the bar or maybe you’ll just yawn and realize you’re horny, but seriously try not to drunk text. Just order pizza. You’ll regret the carbs a lot less.

5. Thou Shall Not Have Hate Sex
It’s easy, but hate sex with your ex is just better in theory. It’ll either leave you unsatisfied or too satisfied. It will either be just like old times or it’ll make you think you should’ve just taken that hot stranger home. Just hop on Tinder instead.

4. Thou Shall Play Nice
When you see him in public, just smile and wave. Pretend you shared notes for English instead of his freshman year hostel bed. Pretend you hardly know him until you no longer know his favorite song anymore. Pretend you’re a decent member of society and not a psychopath who’s still waiting on him to realize you’re the one.

3. Thou Shall Not Bring Up Old Times
He remembers, you remember, your roommate definitely still remembers how you sounded that night. There’s no reason to bring it up. It’s not an inside joke with an old friend, it’s an invitation to bring up a time with an old girlfriend he, *ouch*, doesn’t want back.

2. Thou Shall Not Mourn Too Long
Breakups build character. Rub some dirt in it and if you’re going to drunk cry, keep it in the safety of your home. It’s unhealthy and it makes him weirded out when he sees you staring at him without blinking across the bar.

1. Thou Shall Not Fucking Beg
Do not text, tweet, send a smoke signal or any other sort of desperate form of “I miss you.” He doesn’t care. That’s why he broke up with you. Do not beg for him back. Do not chase him down with your tail between your leg. You’re a bitch, but you’re not a dog.

Again, these only apply if it’s a civil breakup. If he cheated on you, he can go to hell.

How campus girls can find way through love

Do not allow him to consume you. If he does not call, go to sleep. If he does not message, put your phone away and have a fantastic day anyway. If he acts distant when you are with him and refuses to tell you what is wrong, don’t wait for him, go home and do something you love.

If he tries to insinuate you do not need your friends now that you have him, spend more time with your friends. If he tries to teach you a lesson through the silent treatment, ignore him completely. If he plays with your feelings constantly, walk away from him. If he acts like your body is his entitlement when you are not ready, walk away from him.

If he says terrible, unforgivable things and threatens to leave you after every argument, walk away from him. If he forbids you from doing anything you love, walk away from him.

If he claims ownership of your accomplishments, walk away from him. If he demeans you or disrespects your being a girl and refuses to stop when you tell him it hurts, walk away from him.

I cannot stress this enough, you live for yourself first. He is a secondary character in the story of your life. Do not allow him to turn you into a secondary character in your own book.