By Jemedari Mwanawakiume
It was some Years back and I was
excited to have fallen in love with my
first girlfriend…she was beautiful,vivac
ious,gentle,mature and incredibly adorable…she spoke like a Queen and walked like a Princess…We fell for each
other,started exchanging loads of
sentimental love letters,started
hanging out together,going for
romantic walks every evening and
would cuddle up together every
weekend and listen to an endless
retinue of lovesongs… We couldnt
resist each other…it was special in
every single way…
I would go to their place or she
would come at ours…then we’d just
lose ourselves in a love
jamboree…we’d
laugh,cuddle,kiss,read books and play
like little kids…I WAS IN LOVE.
TOTALLY…
One day I was on my way to her
place…she had told Me she would be
BUSY all day BUT I thought ,”Why
dont I drop by just to suprise her…”
so I went…I textd her and told her,
“Baibe am kamin @ Ur place” and she
replied ,”But Baibe,NOT TODAY…I
told U al b busy ol day,I hav alot ov
work 2do…”
Somehow,I didnt believe her…so I
continued walking til I got there…the
gate wasnt closed…I opened it gently
and slipped into the compound…And
gently and steelthily,I crept up to her
door,I wanted to suprise her…I had a
bar of chocolate,a red teddy bear and
a little romantic movie for us to
watch…suprisingly,the door wasnt
closed…so I pushed aside the door
curtain AND BAM! There she was!
Tightly held in the arms of some
other guy! The radio was so loud so
they couldnt hear Me! And they were
deeply engrossed in the deepest,most
elaborate kissing marathon ever! And
she was half nude! And the guy’s
hands were allover her! It was like a
1950’s Movie Scene… Ok,Ok…My
heart sank…I didnt say a word…Or
interupt their love session…I crept
back and walked away…but when I
got to the gate,I decided to let her
know I was there…so I went to the
nearby shop…asked for a pen and
paper and wrote,”Hi Baibe. I was
here. But I didnt want to disturb. I
brought U sum chocol8…” and I went
back to their house,placed the
chocolates and teddy hear by the
door and placed my little written
note on top…then I left…
Later,she confessed everything,told
me that that other guy was her
neighbour! Yes,neighbour! And that
she doesnt understand how they
ended up there! She begged and
cried and cried…Well,I LOVED HER TO
DEATH,So I forgave her…It was
tough,but I did it…We continued
with our relationshp BUT IT WAS
NEVER the same again!
I am reminded of a car…When a car
gets a minor accident,the owner takes
it to a garage…the garage people try
to repair it and re-paint the area
where the car was dented…BUT ONE
THING I KNOW IS: Even If You re-
paint the car,IT WILL NEVER match
the rest of the car!
The re-painted part will always LOOK
different from the rest of the car
colour! And Everyday the owner of the
car looks at that re-painted part,IT
WILL ALWAYS remind him of that
accident he had years ago!
WHY CHEAT IN A RELATIONSHIP??
Many want Us to believe that
CHEATING is A REALITY and We have
to live with it!
NO . CHEATING IS NOT A REALITY!
And WE DONT HAVE TO LIVE WITH IT!
A Man who CHEATS is NOT practising
REALITY!
REALITY means being REAL. Being
TRUE. Being HONEST. Being SINCERE.
Thats WHAT reality Means! When He
gave You his heart,He trusted You
with it! And when she gave You her
heart,SHE TRUSTED You could handle
it!
Instead of faking everything,WHY
DONT YOU QUIT and Be Yourself??
Thats what REALITY means!
REALITY does NOT mean lies,faking
love and little games! Thats NOT
Reality!
Instead Of pretending You are in
Love,WHY DONT YOU dump her,why
dont you dump him and explore Your
wild sexual exploits??!
SOME OF US BELIEVE IN NOTHING
BUT FAITHFULNESS!
If she is there for You,If she is true
to You,If she stays by your side,If she
is honest with You,If she does
ANYTHING You ask her,THEN SHE
DESERVES RESPECT. FAITHFULNESS
AND TOTAL HONESTY!
Same case applies to the Man!
If You cant kiss JUST ONE GIRL,If You
cant LOVE just one girl,If You cant
think of just ONE girl, THEN STOP
lying to her that she’s THE ONLY
ONE! Do her a favor,let her go and
then sort out Your Mess!
CHEATING may be Everywhere today
BUT WE CAN rise Up and SAY, WE ARE
NOT “EVERYWHERE”… WE ARE WHO
WE ARE!
Stay True. Stay Real. Stay Honest.
If You are Unhappy,then QUIT! But
as long as YOU ARE IN LOVE with a
human being,ITS A CRIME to create
space for ANOTHER HUMAN BEING!
When You break someone’s heart,no
matter how many times you try to
repair it,IT NEVER really heals,Its
NEVER the same again! Ever!
A HEART is NOT an Egg. So why
BREAK it???
After all,
Its NOT a SHAME to be faithful. Its
an HONOR.
BE REAL. STAY FAITHFUL. Thats All.
It was some Years back and I was
excited to have fallen in love with my
first girlfriend…she was beautiful,vivac
ious,gentle,mature and incredibly adorable…she spoke like a Queen and walked like a Princess…We fell for each
other,started exchanging loads of
sentimental love letters,started
hanging out together,going for
romantic walks every evening and
would cuddle up together every
weekend and listen to an endless
retinue of lovesongs… We couldnt
resist each other…it was special in
every single way…
I would go to their place or she
would come at ours…then we’d just
lose ourselves in a love
jamboree…we’d
laugh,cuddle,kiss,read books and play
like little kids…I WAS IN LOVE.
TOTALLY…
One day I was on my way to her
place…she had told Me she would be
BUSY all day BUT I thought ,”Why
dont I drop by just to suprise her…”
so I went…I textd her and told her,
“Baibe am kamin @ Ur place” and she
replied ,”But Baibe,NOT TODAY…I
told U al b busy ol day,I hav alot ov
work 2do…”
Somehow,I didnt believe her…so I
continued walking til I got there…the
gate wasnt closed…I opened it gently
and slipped into the compound…And
gently and steelthily,I crept up to her
door,I wanted to suprise her…I had a
bar of chocolate,a red teddy bear and
a little romantic movie for us to
watch…suprisingly,the door wasnt
closed…so I pushed aside the door
curtain AND BAM! There she was!
Tightly held in the arms of some
other guy! The radio was so loud so
they couldnt hear Me! And they were
deeply engrossed in the deepest,most
elaborate kissing marathon ever! And
she was half nude! And the guy’s
hands were allover her! It was like a
1950’s Movie Scene… Ok,Ok…My
heart sank…I didnt say a word…Or
interupt their love session…I crept
back and walked away…but when I
got to the gate,I decided to let her
know I was there…so I went to the
nearby shop…asked for a pen and
paper and wrote,”Hi Baibe. I was
here. But I didnt want to disturb. I
brought U sum chocol8…” and I went
back to their house,placed the
chocolates and teddy hear by the
door and placed my little written
note on top…then I left…
Later,she confessed everything,told
me that that other guy was her
neighbour! Yes,neighbour! And that
she doesnt understand how they
ended up there! She begged and
cried and cried…Well,I LOVED HER TO
DEATH,So I forgave her…It was
tough,but I did it…We continued
with our relationshp BUT IT WAS
NEVER the same again!
I am reminded of a car…When a car
gets a minor accident,the owner takes
it to a garage…the garage people try
to repair it and re-paint the area
where the car was dented…BUT ONE
THING I KNOW IS: Even If You re-
paint the car,IT WILL NEVER match
the rest of the car!
The re-painted part will always LOOK
different from the rest of the car
colour! And Everyday the owner of the
car looks at that re-painted part,IT
WILL ALWAYS remind him of that
accident he had years ago!
WHY CHEAT IN A RELATIONSHIP??
Many want Us to believe that
CHEATING is A REALITY and We have
to live with it!
NO . CHEATING IS NOT A REALITY!
And WE DONT HAVE TO LIVE WITH IT!
A Man who CHEATS is NOT practising
REALITY!
REALITY means being REAL. Being
TRUE. Being HONEST. Being SINCERE.
Thats WHAT reality Means! When He
gave You his heart,He trusted You
with it! And when she gave You her
heart,SHE TRUSTED You could handle
it!
Instead of faking everything,WHY
DONT YOU QUIT and Be Yourself??
Thats what REALITY means!
REALITY does NOT mean lies,faking
love and little games! Thats NOT
Reality!
Instead Of pretending You are in
Love,WHY DONT YOU dump her,why
dont you dump him and explore Your
wild sexual exploits??!
SOME OF US BELIEVE IN NOTHING
BUT FAITHFULNESS!
If she is there for You,If she is true
to You,If she stays by your side,If she
is honest with You,If she does
ANYTHING You ask her,THEN SHE
DESERVES RESPECT. FAITHFULNESS
AND TOTAL HONESTY!
Same case applies to the Man!
If You cant kiss JUST ONE GIRL,If You
cant LOVE just one girl,If You cant
think of just ONE girl, THEN STOP
lying to her that she’s THE ONLY
ONE! Do her a favor,let her go and
then sort out Your Mess!
CHEATING may be Everywhere today
BUT WE CAN rise Up and SAY, WE ARE
NOT “EVERYWHERE”… WE ARE WHO
WE ARE!
Stay True. Stay Real. Stay Honest.
If You are Unhappy,then QUIT! But
as long as YOU ARE IN LOVE with a
human being,ITS A CRIME to create
space for ANOTHER HUMAN BEING!
When You break someone’s heart,no
matter how many times you try to
repair it,IT NEVER really heals,Its
NEVER the same again! Ever!
A HEART is NOT an Egg. So why
BREAK it???
After all,
Its NOT a SHAME to be faithful. Its
an HONOR.
BE REAL. STAY FAITHFUL. Thats All.
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