By Jemedari Mwanawakiume
Following my previous article on how to bang a fresher, a number of campus guys have written to me asking for more information on how to pick up girls at campus and get laid.
I’ve decided to dedicate the next article to breaking down the game for future Campus MZITO. MZITO is a pick-up artiste, someone whose hobby is to vibe girls and charm them. When you read an article here, go test it out in the field because theory without practice is useless.
What if you needed one thing to get laid, what would it be? Truth be told, it’s not your money, it’s not your looks, it’s not how easy the girl is, it is your INTERNAL GAME.
Internal or Inner game is the only one thing you need to get laid at campus. Internal game is the game that goes on into your head or mind. It is the thoughts and beliefs you hold which will eventually affect your behaviour and ultimately how others respond to you.
If you think you need money to get laid, you will end up approaching less girls consequently you will get laid less than one who doesn’t think so. If you think a girl is outside your league, you won’t bother to vibe her, and thus automatically relegate yourself as one of the men who will never bang her.
Before I begin breaking down the actual steps to real game, I ought to make sure your mind believes in a reality that will benefit you the most.
1. Game, Not Appearance
The first belief you must hold in your mind is that looks don’t matter as much as you think to girls. You have seen guys looking wacky getting laid. You’ve seen a guy with big ears walk back home with the hottest girl in the club while guys with muscles walk back home alone to wank.
Girls perceive men differently. Whereas one girl will look at your big muscles and see you as a harmful beast, another will look at them and see you and someone ready to protect you. The number one thing girls consider when choosing a man is not his looks, so take that lie out of your head and stop using that excuse as a deterrent for not approaching the next hot girl you see on campus.
What matters and what plays the biggest role in getting the results you need from girls is your game and that’s what I'm teaching you. Why am I teaching you? One, because you asked for this advice. Secondly, because I took time and learned these things in the field and feel every young man should learn them.
You should have a deeply ingrained belief that game and not appearance is what matters when it comes to success with girls. Of course guys with great looks will have it a little bit easier, but if you are willing to approach more than them, you will get laid more than they do. Looks without game are useless. What you need to tell your mind is that it needs to learn game. Looks and appearance are dependent on the other person’s eyes. Your game is dependent on you and your actions.
2. Nature vs Nurture
You have probably seen that guy in a bar with all girls flocking to his table, dancing suggestively for him. You might have thought that perhaps he was born with this skill. That he is a natural.
True, some people are born naturals, but hard work (game) will always beat talent if talent doesn’t work hard.
Let me tell you a story. Years back at a Campus, there was this hot girl that every guy kept looking at but none dared to approach. Most guys get extremely nervous to approach girls. Even her fellow girls were checking her out.
My friends dared me to approach her, to prove that I had game. I went over pointed at the tattoo by her neck and asked what it meant, she was all so very excited, we talked, exchanged numbers and a week later, she paid me a visit at my hostel and we made love.
A year back if you had told me that this was possible, I wouldn’t have believed. That one could approach the hottest girl at campus and bang her a week later. This made me prove the fact that your nurture and not your nature affects your results with girls. I didn’t bang her because I was the best looking guy at the campus, or the funniest or the most confident, but because I was the only guy who made the effort to approach her. There are some girls who are willing to have sex with you, if only you approach.
Now when guys see me and my wingman approach girls on campus, they assume we were born with this skill, which is not the case. We had to learn it through practice, going through multiple rejections. Even right now, we still get rejected. But realize if you are going to be successful with girls, you should fall in love with getting rejected. Sometimes, the girl who rejects you in the morning will be the same girl calling your phone in the evening asking to spend the night at your place. All the best players I know of, have been rejected countless times and as a result have built thick skin and learned how to insulate themselves against rejection.
Being nice won’t get you girls at campus, it will only keep you in the friend zone. You will be the guy they call to do coursework on their behalf and then give you a fake hug to make you think you are getting somewhere. If you want to get laid at campus, you must have game.
3. Confidence
Talk to anyone about getting better with girls and they will tell you confidence is the key that unlocks all doors which is very true. A confident person is automatically attractive, people feel drawn to him, they will laugh at his fake jokes even when they are not really funny. They will agree to everything he tells them. A confident person is magnetic.
Girls love confident men. One time I was at this internship where every dude was trying to hit on this hot chic, another intern. I decided to do the opposite of what all the other men were doing in her presence. I would diss her looks, her weave, while praising my looks. I rarely agreed with her during arguments. I always took the opposite side. I kept on telling her that I was doing her a favour and she ought to feel lucky talking to a handsome guy.
As a result she kept confessing that the only thing that made her get drawn to me was my confidence. I banged her a day towards the end of the internship. No money, no new clothes, just my confidence.
And what this did was to even build my confidence more. Realize that confidence comes from experience and competence. As you become competent in something, you become more confident in it. If you banged the hottest girl in your course, you will be more confident to approach the next sexy girl you see walking around campus.
4. Alphas and Betas
If you ever visit the Chimpazee Sanctuary, you will notice that there are two types of male chimps, the Alpha chimps and the beta chimps. The Alpha chimps always eat food before the betas. You will see them performing doggy style on the females while the betas stand watching in envy and anger from a distance.
This is not much different from real life. In real life there are the bad guys and the nice guys. The nice guys do everything for girls, they let the girls to step on them, they agree to everything a girl says and guess how they are paid? By being promoted in the friend zone, from friend to brother to BFF.
Nice guys are the guys girls come to cry to about their problems with bad guys or assholes. She will come cry to you and then run back into the arms of the asshole who will ask her to give him head as he watches his football match or reads a magazine. The bad guys, assholes are the Alpha males. The nice guys are the beta males. Your goal is to go from being Beta (bitter) to being an Alpha male on campus.
An Alpha male does not concern himself with personal rejection or failure. He doesn’t worry about what other people think of him. His needs, wants and feelings come first before anything. Opinions, dirty looks and judgments don’t stop him from going after what he wants in life. He will approach that hot girl in the scorching sun under the full glare of everyone. He doesn’t ask for permission.
An alpha male doesn’t make apologies for being a man and using game to attend to his sexual needs. He doesn’t brag about his successes neither does he apologize for his mistakes. He doesn’t hide his intentions with a woman. If he feels like kissing her, he will go in for the kiss.
An alpha male is also not afraid of burning bridges. He’s not afraid of walking away from a dead end. If a girl is proving not to want to have sex with him, he won’t pretend it’s okay. He will cut off contact and try with another girl. An alpha male knows that there are plenty of girls.
An alpha male lives in his own reality. He creates the rules in that reality and every female in there is expected to obey those rules. An alpha male expects girls to work first on his need before he can reward their good behaviour. He doesn’t have any hidden intentions. Everything a woman gets from an alpha male is earned and he makes it very clear by having high expectations of them.
Of course you don’t become Alpha male overnight. It is a transition. But you can start today to begin adopting alpha male behaviour.
Sometimes the difference between an Alpha Male and a Beta male is the intent. For example, when I buy a drink for a girl in a bar, I do it because I want to loosen her up. A beta man will buy her a drink in order to please her. You realize our intents are different.
I don’t call a girl after two days because I am afraid she will forget about me, I call because that’s when I want to talk to her.
Beta males do things because they are trying to impress women, Alpha males do things because they just want to do those things and doing those things makes them happy.
5. Your Mind Is Slow
Whereas inner game is the first thing you need to learn, it is the last thing you will master. You can tell your brain a million times that you should walk away from that girl where things are leading nowhere. But until you actually walk away, your brain will never master that fact of walking away. So you must keep doing actions to tell your brain that you mean what you tell it. Slowly by slowly, your experience and actions will reinforce your beliefs and as a result this will be the new you.
Following my previous article on how to bang a fresher, a number of campus guys have written to me asking for more information on how to pick up girls at campus and get laid.
I’ve decided to dedicate the next article to breaking down the game for future Campus MZITO. MZITO is a pick-up artiste, someone whose hobby is to vibe girls and charm them. When you read an article here, go test it out in the field because theory without practice is useless.
What if you needed one thing to get laid, what would it be? Truth be told, it’s not your money, it’s not your looks, it’s not how easy the girl is, it is your INTERNAL GAME.
Internal or Inner game is the only one thing you need to get laid at campus. Internal game is the game that goes on into your head or mind. It is the thoughts and beliefs you hold which will eventually affect your behaviour and ultimately how others respond to you.
If you think you need money to get laid, you will end up approaching less girls consequently you will get laid less than one who doesn’t think so. If you think a girl is outside your league, you won’t bother to vibe her, and thus automatically relegate yourself as one of the men who will never bang her.
Before I begin breaking down the actual steps to real game, I ought to make sure your mind believes in a reality that will benefit you the most.
1. Game, Not Appearance
The first belief you must hold in your mind is that looks don’t matter as much as you think to girls. You have seen guys looking wacky getting laid. You’ve seen a guy with big ears walk back home with the hottest girl in the club while guys with muscles walk back home alone to wank.
Girls perceive men differently. Whereas one girl will look at your big muscles and see you as a harmful beast, another will look at them and see you and someone ready to protect you. The number one thing girls consider when choosing a man is not his looks, so take that lie out of your head and stop using that excuse as a deterrent for not approaching the next hot girl you see on campus.
What matters and what plays the biggest role in getting the results you need from girls is your game and that’s what I'm teaching you. Why am I teaching you? One, because you asked for this advice. Secondly, because I took time and learned these things in the field and feel every young man should learn them.
You should have a deeply ingrained belief that game and not appearance is what matters when it comes to success with girls. Of course guys with great looks will have it a little bit easier, but if you are willing to approach more than them, you will get laid more than they do. Looks without game are useless. What you need to tell your mind is that it needs to learn game. Looks and appearance are dependent on the other person’s eyes. Your game is dependent on you and your actions.
2. Nature vs Nurture
You have probably seen that guy in a bar with all girls flocking to his table, dancing suggestively for him. You might have thought that perhaps he was born with this skill. That he is a natural.
True, some people are born naturals, but hard work (game) will always beat talent if talent doesn’t work hard.
Let me tell you a story. Years back at a Campus, there was this hot girl that every guy kept looking at but none dared to approach. Most guys get extremely nervous to approach girls. Even her fellow girls were checking her out.
My friends dared me to approach her, to prove that I had game. I went over pointed at the tattoo by her neck and asked what it meant, she was all so very excited, we talked, exchanged numbers and a week later, she paid me a visit at my hostel and we made love.
A year back if you had told me that this was possible, I wouldn’t have believed. That one could approach the hottest girl at campus and bang her a week later. This made me prove the fact that your nurture and not your nature affects your results with girls. I didn’t bang her because I was the best looking guy at the campus, or the funniest or the most confident, but because I was the only guy who made the effort to approach her. There are some girls who are willing to have sex with you, if only you approach.
Now when guys see me and my wingman approach girls on campus, they assume we were born with this skill, which is not the case. We had to learn it through practice, going through multiple rejections. Even right now, we still get rejected. But realize if you are going to be successful with girls, you should fall in love with getting rejected. Sometimes, the girl who rejects you in the morning will be the same girl calling your phone in the evening asking to spend the night at your place. All the best players I know of, have been rejected countless times and as a result have built thick skin and learned how to insulate themselves against rejection.
Being nice won’t get you girls at campus, it will only keep you in the friend zone. You will be the guy they call to do coursework on their behalf and then give you a fake hug to make you think you are getting somewhere. If you want to get laid at campus, you must have game.
3. Confidence
Talk to anyone about getting better with girls and they will tell you confidence is the key that unlocks all doors which is very true. A confident person is automatically attractive, people feel drawn to him, they will laugh at his fake jokes even when they are not really funny. They will agree to everything he tells them. A confident person is magnetic.
Girls love confident men. One time I was at this internship where every dude was trying to hit on this hot chic, another intern. I decided to do the opposite of what all the other men were doing in her presence. I would diss her looks, her weave, while praising my looks. I rarely agreed with her during arguments. I always took the opposite side. I kept on telling her that I was doing her a favour and she ought to feel lucky talking to a handsome guy.
As a result she kept confessing that the only thing that made her get drawn to me was my confidence. I banged her a day towards the end of the internship. No money, no new clothes, just my confidence.
And what this did was to even build my confidence more. Realize that confidence comes from experience and competence. As you become competent in something, you become more confident in it. If you banged the hottest girl in your course, you will be more confident to approach the next sexy girl you see walking around campus.
4. Alphas and Betas
If you ever visit the Chimpazee Sanctuary, you will notice that there are two types of male chimps, the Alpha chimps and the beta chimps. The Alpha chimps always eat food before the betas. You will see them performing doggy style on the females while the betas stand watching in envy and anger from a distance.
This is not much different from real life. In real life there are the bad guys and the nice guys. The nice guys do everything for girls, they let the girls to step on them, they agree to everything a girl says and guess how they are paid? By being promoted in the friend zone, from friend to brother to BFF.
Nice guys are the guys girls come to cry to about their problems with bad guys or assholes. She will come cry to you and then run back into the arms of the asshole who will ask her to give him head as he watches his football match or reads a magazine. The bad guys, assholes are the Alpha males. The nice guys are the beta males. Your goal is to go from being Beta (bitter) to being an Alpha male on campus.
An Alpha male does not concern himself with personal rejection or failure. He doesn’t worry about what other people think of him. His needs, wants and feelings come first before anything. Opinions, dirty looks and judgments don’t stop him from going after what he wants in life. He will approach that hot girl in the scorching sun under the full glare of everyone. He doesn’t ask for permission.
An alpha male doesn’t make apologies for being a man and using game to attend to his sexual needs. He doesn’t brag about his successes neither does he apologize for his mistakes. He doesn’t hide his intentions with a woman. If he feels like kissing her, he will go in for the kiss.
An alpha male is also not afraid of burning bridges. He’s not afraid of walking away from a dead end. If a girl is proving not to want to have sex with him, he won’t pretend it’s okay. He will cut off contact and try with another girl. An alpha male knows that there are plenty of girls.
An alpha male lives in his own reality. He creates the rules in that reality and every female in there is expected to obey those rules. An alpha male expects girls to work first on his need before he can reward their good behaviour. He doesn’t have any hidden intentions. Everything a woman gets from an alpha male is earned and he makes it very clear by having high expectations of them.
Of course you don’t become Alpha male overnight. It is a transition. But you can start today to begin adopting alpha male behaviour.
Sometimes the difference between an Alpha Male and a Beta male is the intent. For example, when I buy a drink for a girl in a bar, I do it because I want to loosen her up. A beta man will buy her a drink in order to please her. You realize our intents are different.
I don’t call a girl after two days because I am afraid she will forget about me, I call because that’s when I want to talk to her.
Beta males do things because they are trying to impress women, Alpha males do things because they just want to do those things and doing those things makes them happy.
5. Your Mind Is Slow
Whereas inner game is the first thing you need to learn, it is the last thing you will master. You can tell your brain a million times that you should walk away from that girl where things are leading nowhere. But until you actually walk away, your brain will never master that fact of walking away. So you must keep doing actions to tell your brain that you mean what you tell it. Slowly by slowly, your experience and actions will reinforce your beliefs and as a result this will be the new you.
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